Pros & Cons of Collaborative Divorce
Although mediation and collaboration have some similarities, they are different processes. In our last blog, we covered the pros and cons of divorce through mediation. Today, we are delving into the pros and cons of collaborative divorce. If you are unfamiliar with this process, click here. If you are considering it, before making your final decision, understand the pros and cons.
Pros of Collaborative Divorce
You and your spouse sit down together to work through every detail. That means you retain control over the outcome of the division of debts and assets as well as the parenting plan, spousal support, and any child support. This helps you and your spouse stay in control of the process. Unlike court proceedings which are a matter of public record, collaborative divorce is a private process. You are also never interrogated by the other person’s attorney. Perhaps the biggest reason to consider collaborative divorce is that it is the most cost-effective means to divorce. There is no mediator to pay and your attorney draws up the papers and provides guidance.
Cons of Collaborative Divorce
The downside of not having someone like a mediator to help you through the process is that you may not be able to come to an agreement on all issues. Afterall, when most people divorce there are at least some acrimonious feelings. Because the process is based on trust, if you cannot fully trust your spouse to disclose all their assets, you may not end up with a fair settlement. Another downfall of this process is if you cannot come to an agreement, you have wasted time. You also will have to find a new attorney if you abandon this process and head to litigation.
Wagstaff & Pitelis Can Help No Matter How You Choose to Go Through the Divorce Process
As a team of lawyers with experience in collaborative divorce, mediation and, of course, divorce trials, you can trust Wagstaff & Pitelis to work hard to help you get a fair settlement. Both Mary Lou Wagstaff and Maria Pitelis are certified mediators. Maria Pitelis is a member of NGD which means she is more than qualified to work on collaborative divorces. Call us today at (727) 584-8182 or fill out our contact form to schedule your initial consultation.